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10 Things I Learned While Travelling the World

I’ve been back in Canada for a little less than a month now and have had some time to decompress and to think about my trip.  At first, I thought I hadn’t really changed at all during my travels, but it actually has in a million tiny ways.  I’d like to share that with you now:

10. The Journey is the Thing

My trip had no specific goal, other than to relax, enjoy and experience the world that was far away from home.  This turned out to a great way to travel and, for me, to not focus on the result, but to really take the journey for what it was – an adventure into the unknown.

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9. We are all the Same

I included this in my last list, but I want to say it again.  I love people, and the truest realization I had again while I was overseas is that we are all, at our most basic level, very similar.  We just want to be happy; to have enough food to eat, a roof over our heads, some people who love us and a purpose in life that brings us joy.  I saw all kinds of people living in many different ways as I worked though six countries, but they all have this in common. We are all part of one big human family, and it doesn’t matter where you are from or what you are doing with your life, some things are the same within all of us.

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8. Travel is as Easy and as Hard as you Want it To Be

PATIENCE.  This one virtue has eluded me my whole life, and nothing cures the need for control than a less than smooth travel experience.  I learned about the essence of the journey in my search for patience as I met setbacks and mishaps along the road.   I learned how to be more adaptable, to let things slide, and to only care about the most important things along the way.

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7. Roll with the Waves

This one is a good follow-up to #8.  When I rolled with the upsets along the way, the journey got even more interesting: I saw some things I would otherwise have missed, or had a completely new experiences I wasn’t expecting to have.  By saying “Yes!” I got into more trouble, saw more unexpected things, and had more impromptu adventures than if I had stuck to a strict schedule and followed it the whole way along.

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6. Pay Attention

I learned that there is beauty in the details.  That every city is an intricate mess that somehow works in its own unique way.  That the road less traveled sometimes results in a washed out car or monkeys attacking your windshield.  To stop and save the kittens, get lost on a bike and get found again, and that fun can be found in every airport, bus station, or boat ride.  By paying true attention to my surroundings, I was also able to glimpse into the local life of the people, and have real experiences from the country I was visiting.  That, to me, is priceless.

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5. Embrace the Inner Hippie

I’m normally a goal-oriented, round the clock, by the book kind of person.  To escape that mentality for a while and embrace my inner beach bum was an enlightening experience.  I had whole days with no plans and nothing to do, vague ideas of where the day would take me, and days where I just went with the flow.  That rarely happens in my “real” life in Canada, and it was refreshing to break out of the bubble of who I think I am and step into the sandals of my inner Hippie Goddess.  She is someone I want to know better, and a side of me that I won’t soon forget now that we’ve been re-aquainted!

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4. Trust the Kindness of Strangers

In my travels I stayed with family friends, friends of friends, new friends and people I didn’t even know at all. I was welcomed into countless homes with open arms, to people eager to share in my travel journey and get to know me.  I feel SO blessed to now have friends from all over the world, and want to thank each and every one of you for your hospitality and help in exploring all these new places 🙂 If you ever travel, and someone recommends that you stay with a friend or you have family/friends to stay with overseas, DO IT! It will completely change your perspective on the country you are visiting, because you get to see it through the eyes of a local.  A thousand thank-you’s again to all those who put me up while I was abroad!  You are welcome to return the favour here in Canada anytime!

3. Comfort Zones are Boring

I did something new and crazy in every country I went to: Surfing in Indonesia, Parasailing in Philippines, and even Skydiving in New Zealand.  Get out of your comfort zone and try some new and crazy stuff.  It will enrich your travel experience and add a whole new level of fun.  Besides, that’s what travel is for: new experiences and adventures! It doesn’t matter how scared you are – do something wild and crazy!  eat that cricket off a Bangkok bug cart!  Take the jet boat ride through the canyon!  Throw yourself out of a plane! These things are the highlights of my travels as I look back on them now, the times I challenged myself and really went for it.

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2. Theres No Place like Home

Canada is an amazing country. I learned this while I was abroad through other travellers stories about my home country, that it is a well-loved place in the world and worth exploring in its own right.  Talking about it with others made me realize how much I love being a Canadian and how lucky I am to call this place my home.  I never really appreciated it until I left for a long time and realized what a phenomenal place it is.

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1. I am SO lucky

The fact that I was able to pull off this trip still boggles my mind.  There was so much planning involved – a years worth of time and effort went into it, and now that I’m back I can see what a privileged position I hold as a citizen of Canada.  I have enough food to eat, a roof over my head, and friends and family who love and care about me.  The rest is just gravy!  Upon returning I went to my bathroom and turned on the tap, thinking back to all the times I didn’t have access to fresh water on my travels. Something as simple as turning on the tap can take on new meaning after travelling: it represents all that we take for granted, being from a first world country were every comfort is provided for.  I feel that, now, I am able to name how lucky I truly am.

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Well. That’s it!  I’m sure I will update this blog again in the future as life takes me on more travels, but for now I am happy to have landed back in Canada, ready to take on the world 🙂

xo

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Little Red Dot and a Night on the Town

On our third day in Singapore, we woke up to an unpleasant sound – rain!  It was a crap day outside, and we stayed in bed until it cleared up a bit.  We had some shopping errands to do, namely buying some gifts for our gracious hosts, so we ventured out to the market in the hot sticky damp weather and found some flowers and chocolate for the kids who had given up their room for us!  Then we packed up our stuff and headed downtown to our second stop on the journey, The Little Red Dot hostel, close to downtown and Little India, but very expensive for us at SG$20 per dorm bed.  We got there without too much trouble and checked in, the hostel is clean and nice with a good atmosphere, our beds were soft and the room had air-con so we were very satisfied!  After all this, we walked to the Golden Mile complex, a multi-use complex where many long distance buses left for other destinations in Malaysia.  We tried to figure out the cheapest way to get to our next destination, but the cheapest we found was SG$55. Yikes!! After weighing our options, we decided to try a few other places and quickly realized it was Sunday night and nothing else was open. 😦 boo.

Our lovely “family” had invited us to dinner that evening near Clarke Quay, so we walked over to the quay to meet them and enjoyed an amazing Indian buffet.  It was delicious!! We really enjoyed our time with the Dias family, thanks again guys for welcoming us into your home and showing us your Singapore!  After dinner I had made arrangements to meet a friend whom I had met in the Philipines, so we trekked over to the reverse bungy ( a kind of slingshot that shoots you up into the air instead of down) and met up with Magnus. The three of us had drinks on a boat in Clarke Quay, but after two beers my budget for the day was exhausted, so we walked back to our hostel.  You may think theses things are close together, but Micheline and I are excellent walkers!  It took us about an hour to get home, but since it was nice out and Singapore is an interesting place, it wasn’t a hassle.
Our next day was pretty chilled out, we decided to bite the bullet and buy the expensive bus tickets out of here, reasoning that since it was an overnight bus we wouldn’t have to pay for accommodations.  After that, it was shopping time! There was lots of bargaining to be had at the Bugis market, and it wasn’t quite so overwhelming this time, I came away with two reasonably priced shirts, a pair of sandals and some trinkets for friends.  Grand shopping total?? $40!! Eeps! Oh well 🙂 when will i ever be back in Singapore? Who knows!  After lunch at the hawker center nearby, we decided to check out Marina Bay Sands, the mega complex and casino on the bay that was topped by a giant ship on three towers, and a huge “Gardens by the Bay” as well.  The hotel itself was very impressive, we didn’t go up to the top of the ship as it was expensive, but we checked out the view of downtown from the quay, and gawped at the Singapore Flyer, a huge ferris wheel that takes a 1/2 hour to go around and gives awesome views of the city and surrounding area.  We walked through the malls and hotel complex to get to Gardens by the Bay, checking out the cool avatar trees and greenery until the sun got the better of us and we decided to go back and get ready for our epic night on the town.
We started out night at the Wine Connection, a reasonably priced place on Robertson Quay, where Magnus, Micheline and I were joined by fellow traveler Ame, Constantin, and my friend Linus, who I had met at full moon last year.  We had an awesome time trading travel stories and I finally had a glass of wine after missing it for a month, and headed out to the Playhouse, a club on Clarke Quay that was pretty much empty, due to it being Monday night.  We said screw it! Lets make our own party! We may have partied a little (wayyyy) too hard cause both me and Micheline woke up with massive hangovers and nixed our plans for the zoo the next day 😦 oh well.  Our day was spent recovering, packing and getting ready for the night bus.
We walked over in the evening to the Golden Mile and I had some pretty goof Pad Thai, as the complex is the “Thai” hub in Singapore, I got a little nostalgic for Thailand!  Our bus ended up being AWESOME, with fully reclining chairs, TV screens, video games and lots of little comforts.  The only bad thing was the bus Nazi, our driver who kept waking us up by screaming into the loudspeaker when we had to cross the border, shouting at us to hurry up, and generally being a surly dude. oh well.  I had an ok night of sleep on the bus, and was eager to get to the Pehrentians the next day!  Beach Paradise, baby!!
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Sunny Sentosa Island

Our second full day in Singapore turned out quite sunny and nice, so we decided on a beach day at the city’s resort island, Sentosa.  We decided to cab it there, and feared for our lives as we sped through traffic as breakneck speed, forking out SG$15 for our fare. Yikes!  Luckily we had brought snacks with us from the local grocery store, and managed to have the cab ride as our largest expense of the day.  After being dropped off at the casino (where there is no surcharge for taxis to come and our 4 dollar entrance fee to the island is waived) we wandered around, in awe of the huge shopping complexes, restaurants and attractions that were on display.  We felt like it was Disneyland, with prices to match!  It was wild after being in the “other” Asia for so long to see such luxury and the newness of it all struck us as very artificial. But hey, at least the tram was free!  We boarded and headed to the other side of the island, to the beaches.  The first beach was called Siloso, and it really wasn’t much to look at.  A tiny beachfront with a view of the huge shipping tankers in the ocean, bordered by some very expensive cafe’s charging SG$20 for the use of the loungers.

I know I sound super cheap, but coming from places where your dollar is worth 10,000 or even 40 of the local currency, it was tough to pay for things that were on par with our dollar.  If I wasn’t careful I could have blown the rest of my trips budget in a few days!
We happily ate our store-bought peanuts and people watched for a bit before deciding to check out the other side of the island, and Palawan beach, which ended up being gorgeous!! In a totally artificial way. Lol My friend even told me later that the rocks on the trucked-in sand were made of plastic! Nonetheless, we enjoyed the beachfront, and were sharing it with what seemed to be about a thousand high schoolers or university aged students, taking part in some kind of epic games day in the sweltering heat.  Whatever!  The sand was warm and the water was nice, so we wasted away most of the afternoon on the beach, browning ourselves while the Japanese sought shade and looked at us like we were the crazy ones!
After all the sun and sand, we boarded the tram and rode it around aimlessly for a while, checking out the rest of the island and it’s activities.  Theres no shortage of fun things to do there if you have money – you can ride the cable car, the luge, go zip-lining, surfing in a fake wave pool, rock climbing, hang on the trapeze, go to universal studios, go to the aquarium, you get the idea.  We didn’t do any of those things and still had a great time on Sentosa, so it all depends on your budget, i guess.  On our way back we stopped at the giant mer-lion, Singapore’s mythical mascot, and climbed the covered escalators (??) to the top of the lookout, where there was a view of Sentosa and the city beyond.  We laughed at the ridiculous items in the gift shop and ate ridiculously expensive ice cream, and boarded the tram back for the ride across the causeway and out to the city once more.  The tram dropped us at a giant mall called Vivocity (surprise, surprise) and we walked around feeling like scrubs in our beach clothes, finding a giant food court and some sweet and sour pork for me!
We were ready to trek back to the burbs after our $5 dinner, and after our 30 minute ride, we were happy to have a quiet night with our host family, playing cards and having a great time relaxing with them.  Jo even popped my laundry in the dryer for me while we were out, and folded it all for me!! 😀 to a traveler, this is actually the NICEST thing you can do for someone on the road, to help them with their laundry!! After some good phone chats with friends, we called it a night.  more adventures awaited us tomorrow 🙂
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City Life in Singapore

I love Singapore!! The six days I spent here were completely unlike the rest of my trip so far, it’s been nice to take a break from the beaches and head to what is the most civilized and organized place I’ve been in Asia. Of course, that label has its pros and cons, but it was a good change nonetheless. I arrived around 8pm and was dropped off in the middle of downtown, I had no idea where I was and only a vague idea of what Mass Rapid Transit (MRT) station was close to me, so I wandered a bit and with the help of a lovely Singaporean lady, found the station and took a smooth if not sweaty ride to the place I was staying.  I am lucky enough to have some family friends with a brother living with his family on the island, and when they invited me to stay for a few days I jumped at the chance!  Staying at a hostel is nice, but it’s always cooler to see how people actually live when you visit a new place, it gives a whole new perspective on what life is like for them!

It turns out due to lack of space on the island, nearly everyone lives in condos or government constructed housing, with lots of food centers and community spaces in between, not to mention about a thousand malls.  I wish I was exaggerating! Singaporeans must love to shop!! I got out of the station at Yio Chiu Kang and followed the instructions on how to get to the Dias household, where they welcomed me in and we got acquainted.  I had missed meeting with my new travel partner Micheline at our rendezvous spot, and was a little worried until I got on the internet and heard her flight was delayed.  I was able to meet her at the station and walk with her ten minutes to the condo, which has a gorgeous pool and layout, all the amenities one could want, and I was feeling pretty lucky as we settled down to sleep.
The next day involved an EPIC amount of walking.  Micheline and I both agreed that we should just check out the downtown before deciding to do anything, and we picked a station and set off for Little India. We wandered into a little Hindu temple and right into a pooja, which is a ritual worship or mass. We watched, totally out of place as the priests blessed the statues and people who were praying to the goddess Kali, who is a goddess of destruction and kinda scary looking!  We walked around the temple grounds and watched as people prayed to the various idols and gods, setting little ghee candles and flower garlands on the gods and drinking what looked like milk or ghee (clarified butter) that had been blessed. It was so surreal, the exact opposite to the Roman Catholic masses of mu childhood, Hinduism seems to me to be the Vegas of religions, with its multiple brightly painted gods, flashing lights, incense, chanting, fires and offerings.  It was sweet!  I’ll never forget it!
Our next stop in our wanders was the aptly named thieves market, a badly put together market of what totally looked like stolen goods and junky stuff.  We stopped for lunch at a hawker center, finding tons of cheap eats in this otherwise expensive city.  Most of our meals consisted of rice or noodles and some kind of meat like duck or pork, and yummy chili sauces.  Sometimes we would just point at some picture of something without knowing what it was, laughing as we ate and guessed what it might be made of. After lunch, we found ourselves in a cool covered market area by Bugis station that was selling tacky souvenirs, fruit shakes, pastries, a lot of Asian clothing and accessories, and pretty much everything in between.  We were totally overwhelmed and took it all in, three floors of tacky Asian goodness. When we finally emerged back into the bright sweltering heat, it was time to find refuge in the Asian civilizations museum.
After a long, hot walk, we found the museum and stepped into an air-conditioned time warp.  The museum was HUGE! and AWESOME!  For a culture nut like me, it was so interesting to learn about the various Asian civilizations in and around Singapore, and how they all ended up together in this one giant melting pot of a city.  It took us a couple of hours to get through the museum, and after that we walked to Chinatown, which is, I have to say, one of the most bland ones I’ve ever seen.  The market was cool, and there was another cool Hindu temple, but overall I would say i preferred the more vibrant and historical Little India in this particular city!  We stopped for pork-filled buns and beer in the Peoples Place Mall before wandering over to Clarke Quay, a trendy spot where everyone goes to drink and hang out after work, it seems.  One look at the prices and we decided to give the patios a pass, although it was a gorgeous riverside spot that we would visit many times over the course of our stay.  We just. kept. walking. and found ourselves on Orchard Road, which is pretty much a paradise for shoppers, with mall after mall after mall offering the latest luxury goods, we saw all the best and well-known brands were present, and laughed about how we could spend our entire trip’s budget on one Miu Miu bag!!
Our feet were done at this point, so we hopped on the train at Orchard Road station and went back to the condo, settling down for the best nights sleep we had both had in a while!

 

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